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A Godly Wife

 

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In the Bible 1 Peter 3 says:

"Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight."  (NIV)

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What does it mean to be a godly wife?

Show Christ's love.     First of all it means that no matter what your husband's spiritual condition may be, he deserves a wife who exhibits God-pleasing behavior.  You don't have to hold back any good thing from your husband just because he doesn't believe in God, in fact your loving treatment of him may cause him to have a change of heart!  This is not to say that a wife has the power to save her husband's soul; only the Holy Spirit can accomplish that (see Common Misconceptions), but you can certainly influence your husband (without words no less!) and show him the love of Christ.

Practical Steps

  • Don't preach.
  • Do let your loving actions speak louder than your words.
  • Don't use the Bible to back up criticism.  The wisdom of the Bible is foolishness to unspiritual people (1 Corinthians 1:18).
  • Do praise and encourage your husband when he does something you know is God-pleasing.
  • Don't worry.  Remember God loves your husband more than you do and wants him to be saved!
  • Do pray for your husband with hope!

God wants there to be harmony between husbands and wives.
Scripture References: Genesis 2:18,  Proverbs 12:4,  Proverbs 21:9,  Proverbs 31:10-31,  Ephesians 5:22-33